THE BECOMING JOURNEY

Activate the next version of you

A 12-Week Coaching Journey for Women who are ready to step into their future self and claim their desired life.

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THE BECOMING JOURNEY

Activating the next version of you - inside and out 

I help women in midlife who know that something needs to change in their lives reconnect with themselves and activate the next version of who they are.

Many of the women I work with feel disconnected, stuck, or quietly invisible — despite having full lives on the outside. They want clarity about what they truly want, confidence to trust themselves again, and the courage to take visible next steps — in life, work, and in their bodies.

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(30 minutes · free · no pressure)

WHEN SOMETHING NEEDS TO CHANGE

There comes a
moment when the way you’ve been living no longer fits.

Not because you’ve failed.
Not because something is wrong with you.
But because you’ve outgrown a version of yourself.

You might feel:

  • disconnected from your body or inner voice

  • unsure what you want next — even though you know you want something

  • quietly invisible or less expressed than you once were

  • pulled toward a next chapter you can sense, but haven’t stepped into

This moment is not a problem to solve.
It’s a threshold.

The Becoming Journey is For You if

  • You’re in midlife and know that something needs to change

  • You feel disconnected from yourself or unsure what you truly want

  • You sense a next version of you — but haven’t embodied her yet

  • You crave clarity, embodiment, confidence, and visibility

  • You want support that is grounded, honest, and not performative

This work is not for you if

  • You’re looking for quick fixes or motivation

  • You want to be told what to do

  • You’re not willing to listen inwardly and work with your body

WHAT IS

THE BECOMING JOURNEY?

The Becoming Journey is a private, 1:1 embodied coaching experience for women in midlife who are standing at a turning point.

This is not about becoming someone else.
It’s about becoming who you already sense you are.

Together, we create space to listen — to your body, your inner knowing, and what wants to emerge next. From there, we activate that next version of you in real, grounded ways.

This work supports you to:

  • Gain Clarity & Direction

    Reconnect with yourself and find out what you truly want — beyond roles, expectations, or autopilot living.

  • Claim Your Confidence

    Activate and become your future self now through change that is rooted in embodiment, not performance.

  • Stop playing small

    Step into visibility - internally and externally - as the woman who you feels 100% like you. Grounded, confident and unapologetic.

  • Live the life you desire

    Take real next steps instead of staying stuck in patterns and reflection. Embody the version of you that you are meant to be.

THE BECOMING JOURNEY

How we work together

12 weeks · private 1:1 coaching

  • 12 week Embodied Coaching Journey tailored to your needs

  • 6x 1:1 Coaching Calls (60 min each)

  • One Discovery Call to set the framework

  • Embodied Tools and Somatic Activations

  • Future-self-based practices and visualization

  • Integration and reflection between sessions

  • Message support throughout the 12 weeks

  • A safe space to explore and take meaningful next steps

Coaching is available worldwide.

For women in Chicago or Hamburg, photography can be integrated as part of this journey — as a moment of recognition, visibility and BECOMING.

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Enhance your Becoming Journey

SHE IS Becoming - Inside and Out

For some women, photography becomes an important part of integration.

Not only as a photoshoot —
but as a moment of being seen as who you are becoming.

My photography work lives under the same philosophy:

  • She Is Herself — powerful glamour or intimate boudoir portraits

  • She Is Visible — branding and professional portraits

Photography is never required.
But when combined with coaching, it can mark a powerful shift from inner knowing to outer expression.

Details about the photoshoot as an add-on are discussed personally in our discovery call to ensure the experience aligns with where you are in your journey.

The Becoming Journey

12-week private 1:1 coaching

What’s included in your journey:

12 week Embodied Coaching Journey tailored to your needs

  • 6x 1:1 Coaching Calls (60 min each)

  • One Discovery Call to set the framework

  • Embodied Tools and Somatic Activations

  • Future-self-based practices and visualization

  • Integration and reflection between sessions

  • Message support throughout the 12 weeks

  • A safe space to explore and take meaningful next steps


    Coaching is available worldwide.

    Photography experience is available as an add-on in Chicago and Hamburg

Investment:

$1,500 USD paid in full (save $255)

Payment plan
• 3 monthly payments of $585

The Becoming Journey is for women who feel that something needs to change in their lives — and want support becoming who they already sense they are.

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YOUR NEXT STEP

You don’t need a perfect plan.
You don’t need to know exactly what’s to come.

You just need to be honest about where you are —
and willing to listen to what wants to change.

If you feel that quiet (or loud) pull, this is your invitation to explore it with support.

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Meet Your Coach

I am Tanja.

Certified Embodied Transformation Coach.
Female Empowerment Photographer.

And Your Biggest Cheerleader.

After decades of doing “the shoulds” and showing up for everyone else, I know how easy it is to wake up one day and wonder: “Is this all?” That’s why I do this work. Because I’ve been there. And because I know how it feels when you finally come back home to a version of you who is fulfilled, passionate, and alive.

I believe that every woman—especially in midlife—deserves to feel confident, unapologetic, and whole.
You are not broken. You don’t need fixing. You don’t need to become someone new.
The version of you who you desire is already within you. SHE is YOU. You are already HER. You just need to allow her back in.

I’m simply here to walk beside you as you remember who you’ve always been.

It’s never too late to rewrite your story. Are you ready to step into the life you desire?

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What it’s like to work with me

Your Questions Answered

  • No. Many women begin this work feeling unclear or disconnected.
    The Becoming Journey is designed to help you discover clarity — not require it upfront.

  • Getting started is simple. Reach out through our contact form or schedule a call—I’ll walk you through the program and answer any questions along the way.

  • My work combines embodied coaching with practical, conversational coaching.

    We don’t work only with thoughts or insight. We include the body as a source of clarity and guidance — so change is not just understood, but felt and lived.

    For some women, photography becomes part of this process. When integrated, it offers a powerful moment of visibility and recognition — seeing yourself as who you are becoming.

    This approach supports real, lasting change because it connects inner clarity with visible, grounded action.

  • No. This is embodied coaching.
    While the work can be deep and reflective, it is future-oriented and focused on integration, embodiment, and real-life movement forward.

  • You don’t need to feel ready — only honest.

    If you know that something needs to change, that’s enough to begin the conversation.

  • Our coaching is a collaborative partnership. I offer a calm, attentive space where we listen closely — to your words, your body, and what wants to emerge next. I ask questions, reflect patterns, and support you to translate inner clarity into real-life action.

    Our work is both embodied and practical. We explore what you’re experiencing, but we also focus on how you want to live, show up, and take visible next steps — in ways that feel grounded and true to you.

    You can expect support — without fixing or judgement.

  • Sessions are private and 1:1.
    We work at a pace that supports embodiment and integration — not pressure or performance.
    The exact rhythm (weekly or biweekly) is agreed on together.

  • Yes.
    Some women begin with coaching and add photography when the timing feels right.
    Photography integration is optional and discussed in our discovery call.

  • This work is designed primarily for women in midlife, but age is less important than where you are internally.
    If you feel at a turning point and resonate with this work, you’re welcome to book a call.

  • The call is a first relaxed conversation.
    We’ll explore where you are, what feels ready to change, and whether The Becoming Journey is the right next step for you.
    There is no pressure to decide on the call.